Wander Without Limits: Traveling with Loved Ones Who Have Special Needs

Travel has always been a passion of mine—it’s my career, my hobby, and my favorite way to make memories. But when I became a mom to a beautiful child with special needs, the way I traveled—and how I planned travel for others—changed forever.

As a travel advisor and a special needs parent, I’ve lived both sides of the story. I know the excitement and anxiety that come with planning a trip for someone with a disability or sensory need. The uncertainty, the what-ifs, and the burning question: “Will this be accessible, safe, and enjoyable for my whole family?”

Let me start by saying this: Yes, you can travel. And yes, it can be amazing.

Charlie's Travel Adventures!

My Why

My daughter Charlie is on the autism spectrum, with sensory processing differences, is non-verbal and has mobility challenges. At the age of 4, she is the size of the average 2 year old and the developmental age of a 9 month old. The first time we traveled after her diagnosis, I had a suitcase full of therapy items, ear defenders, familiar snacks, and about 50 contingency plans!

It wasn’t perfect—but it was beautiful.

She lit up the cruise ship and watching her love her vacation was the highlight of our trip.

I learned that travel didn’t have to be overwhelming—it just needed to be thoughtful.

That’s been my mission ever since: to help families like mine experience the world, without fear.

5 Tips for Traveling with Loved Ones with Special Needs

Whether you're planning your first trip or your fifteenth, here are my top tips—mom-tested, travel advisor-approved:

1. Accessibility Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All

Disability comes in many forms—visible, invisible, physical, sensory, cognitive. One person might need a wheelchair-accessible room, while another needs a quiet place to decompress.

Be clear and detailed when booking. Call the hotel, ask specific questions, and don’t be afraid to request accommodations. If you’re working with a travel advisor (like me!), we can advocate on your behalf.

2. Build in Buffer Time

Rigid itineraries can backfire when someone in your group needs more rest, a quiet moment, or a change of pace. I always recommend a slower travel style—fewer locations, longer stays, and built-in downtime.

That “free morning” might just become the most cherished memory.

3. Prepare, But Stay Flexible

Use social stories or videos to preview locations if your loved one thrives on predictability. Pack familiar comfort items. Pre-board when possible. But also, accept that meltdowns or hiccups may happen—and that’s okay.

I’ve learned to treat those moments with grace, not guilt.

4. Choose Destinations That Get It

Some destinations are more inclusive than others. Look for autism-certified theme parks, sensory-friendly museums, or resorts with accessible amenities. I keep a list of these gems and love matching families to the right fit.

For example, did you know some cruise lines offer disability liaisons, Disney parks have accessibility programs for neurodivergent guests, or that national parks have programs tailored to people with cognitive disabilities?

5. Don’t Apologize for Living Fully

Too often, families like mine feel like we’re “in the way.” But we deserve joy, exploration, and rest—just like anyone else. So take up that space. Ask for what you need. Celebrate the tiny wins.

Because watching my daughter dance to street music in a new city? That’s joy. That’s travel. That’s life.

A Final Word

To every parent, sibling, caregiver, or friend planning a trip with someone who has special needs: I see you. I know the mental load you carry. And I promise—it is worth it.

If you ever need help planning a trip that accommodates everyone, I’m here not just as a professional, but as someone who gets it—because I’m walking that same path, suitcase in one hand and fidget toy in the other.

Let’s explore the world—without limits.

With love and adventure,

Rebecca Currie

Travel Advisor | Special Needs Advocate | Mom